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A couple of nights a week, I hear my next door neighbor having se x. At first, I honestly thought it was one of her little yappy dogs barking, but then I realized it was her moaning in pleasure. I could also hear her boyfriend smacking her on the ass, making her moan even more.

I also wonder if they ever hear me having se x on those rare occasions I get laid.
Do I moan? Yes. Do they hear it? I have no idea. But the real question is: Even if they do hear it, could I NOT moan? What causes women to moan when they have se x? I’ve narrowed it down to these 10 reasons. While I know I’m probably missing a reason or two, this list is based on personal experience and interviews with other moaning women.

1. Automatic Response to Pleasure
One of the most common reasons women moan during se x is simply because it’s an automatic response to pleasure.

2. Automatic Response to Pain
Of course, women also moan in pain. If your man is going a little too rough, or he’s hitting that place inside you that feels uncomfortable, or even if you’ve suddenly develop a leg cramp, you’re just as likely to moan in response to pain during se x just as you are in response to pleasure during se x.

3. To Increase Your lib ido
Moaning is a way of getting your head back in the game so to speak. By moaning, you take your mind off your chores and put it back into the se x where it belongs—which is exactly where it should be.

4. To Make Him Feel Good
Have you ever had se x with someone who was completely silent? It’s… well, it’s a letdown to be honest. I had a lover who never moaned in pleasure, never even made a noise during se x, and I couldn’t help but feel like I was doing something wrong or that he wasn’t enjoying it. Moaning is a way of reassuring your lover that he or she is pleasing you. Actually, you can’t imagine how responsive men are just to the sound of your voice (and the naughty words that come out).

5. To Change His se xual Tone
If you think of moaning as a way of expressing yourself without words, then it’s easy to see how moaning can change your man’s se xual rhythm. If you’re moaning in pleasure and then he starts doing something you don’t enjoy, you change your moan to more of an uncomfortable sound…and he changes his se x style back to something you like. It’s a way of guiding him without actually “telling” him what to do.


6. To Hurry Things up
Some men are so aroused by your se x sounds that the more you give them, the faster they orgasm. I’ll admit: I’ve “faked” an orgasm once or twice by making some pleasurable noises for a man. It happens. Sometimes the se x has just lasted so long you’re exhausted and want him to be finished already.

7. To Slow Things Down
Of course, if you know how to do it right, you can also change the rhythm of your body and the sound of your moan so that your lover slows down before he orgasms too quickly! If you’ve ever had a lover who makes things a bit too quick, moaning can be a good way of shifting his rhythm to give you more time in bed.

8. To Make it Hotter
se x is hot. se x is wet. se x is messy. Noisy, loud, raunchy se x is even hotter!

9. To Turn Him on Even More
If your guy is having a hard time getting aroused, moaning softly in pleasure as he kisses you can give him just the nudge his lib ido needs to get into the moment and more in the mood. A soft moan of pleasure works wonders before you’ve even taken off your clothes. Better yet, see how crazy he goes when you moan while having him in your mouth

10. Because Silence is a Mood Killer
Finally, women moan during se x because silence is a mood killer. No, really it is. Plus, it takes a lot more work to keep quiet than it does to just release your inhibitions and enjoy yourself audibly.

Don’t be silent; express your pleasure. After all, don’t you like it when he moans for you?








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